I received an email today with a question that I get quite often over the years that I have had adult websites. Here is part of the email I got with the question as well as my thoughts on this topic too…

“I just wanted to ask your opinion on something..since you have more experience then the average girl…Do you think it’s possible to have a threesome when in a committed relationship and for the relationship not to change in a bad way…My husband and I have discussed it many times but never went through with it.. by the way he’s a huge fan of yours…Right now I am pregnant and all that fun sex stuff is on hold  but still I can’t help having it all on my mind and thinking ahead for the future. Although I would love to have a threesome and i think about it allot I do worry about what it could do to our relationship..  Should we just take a chance and live a little or hold off.. I mean if I wasn’t so in love I don’t think it would worry me so much but I do worry and care about what it could do to our relationship.”

My first thought when I read this is that there is a lot of doubt here.  Although I am sure the fantasy for you both is strong and it can really make sex more exciting. The mind is very powerful. I personally think that if you can keep it a fantasy and have a wonderful relationship without actually going through with it then that may be the better choice for you.  Thats one of the reasons for adult movies and pornstars. We fulfill the fantasy so you can enjoy watching it together and fantasize. Now, many may read this and roll their eyes and say I am uptight but I know all too well of even couples in the adult business that have been ruined by actually going through with it.

If you trust one another fully and have no unhealthy jealousy issues and you want to go for it, I would suggest not doing it with someone that you are close with that you would see on a regular basis because of course that could lead to having threesomes happen more often which would lead to having an affair.  This is what I heard in your email that you may be afraid of especially since you are just starting a family. I also know of some couples that have certain rules and this seems to work for them and so far they are still together after a decade. Like no kissing with the other person for example. Keep certain things saved for just you and your loved one.

Sex is suppose to be enjoyable , not something that you are not certain of or doubt because in the end you may end of regretting it or you just may decide to become swingers.  Just remember, nothing should be forced. Its got to be 100% a joint decision not just one side pushing for it.

Hope this helps a little bit. Hope I dont come off like a know it all. Its just my personal thoughts from what I have experienced and learned over the years. I wish you all the best with your new family too!!

Love,

Catalina Cruz

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Before I leave for Vegas, I leave you with a teaser screen shot from one of my newest video. Brooke & I gave some private french lessons together and tagged teamed a hard cock. 

So, I have been playing in private one on one cam shows recently. Have done it twice so far. I always wondered what they were like since I had never done them. I have girlfriends that have done them for many many years. I can tell you, they are more satisfying for me than I had thought. lol I really enjoyed spending quality time one on one with fans that have followed me for a long time and some new ppl too. It was very inimate and kinky.  When I get back after Monday, the 12th I will schedule to be on more as I know many were disspointed they missed me. You also can request an appt with me too on privatecamz. If I am available I will approve it. If not, I will deny it and you can try another day/time.  You also can email me for details. catalina@catalinacruz.com

Wish me lots of Blackjacks! I am off to play. Follow me on twitter for some Vegas pics while I am away. www.twitter.com/catalinacruz

xoxo

Catalina Cruz

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It feels so good to be home! Although I had a blast in Vegas as always and I get sad when I have to leave. No hangovers for me this trip. I drank but paced myself, felt tipsy and good without going nuts and feeling like crap the next day, was almost a perfect trip:) Minus our model not showing up for our shoot, finding out only an hour before she was suppose to fly in. I could never do that to someone unless I had a really, really good reason. But, things happen so I won’t jinx myself talking too much crap:) It’s reality of the adult business.

Here are some pics from my trip. I will be adding a big candid photo gallery in the members area of all of them. Very naughty and explicit candids! Also a bathtub BJ video will be going up tomorrow for you.

FYI… I am not on facebook or myspace at all. You will only be able to find me on my site of course and on twitter. I have gotten contacting quite a bit about fake ones so just be careful. I try my best to get the fake ones shut down but they are always seeming to pop up again.

Sending my love! Scheduling my next live show this week so check my members area schedule for it.

xoxoxo!!

Catalina Cruz

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Do I make you horny bebe? I hope so! Here is a sample naughty pic of my new “Asian Flare” photoset. I was just so creamy and excited this day. Check out the whole gallery when you have time.

I am off on a jet plane to LA tomorrow. First in the afternoon, I will be attending a high school graduation which I am looking forward to and then off to the airport. I will be there about a week and will make sure to take you with me in spirit in my camera. Make sure to keep up with me in the members area on the fantasy board, and twitter of course.

Fingers crossed that the weather for flying will be ok, its storming here tonight in AZ…ahhhhh I just hate to fly but its a quick one. If I die, I love you all!!!

Kisses everyone! Have a great, relaxing weekend.

xoxo

Catalina Cruz

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I have such a passion for beauty products. I am always trying new ones and rating them just for fun. I have done it for years. So, I think it is time for me to venture out into the mainstream beauty world and have a special blog just for girls. Sorry guys… this blog is mainly for you and always will be:) So, I started working on a new adventure in my spare time which means not much time but I will make it happen. I was really inspired when I was taking a hot shower today and rubbing ocean salt all over my body, a product I love by the company, LUSH. I just love their natural products. They are such sexy products with amazing aromas and they have a line for men too.

Anyway, this is what I am also working on and wanted to share it with you all. I am having a blast working on it. This is my qoute of the day on my twitter…. “If you love what you do, you will be successful.” That is so true to me.

Here is a behind of scenes of me in the makeup chair, speaking of beauty products.

LUSHfully yours,

Catalina Cruz

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Hello again… ok so I didn’t think I would do it but after a lot of invites to join and try it I am now a twitter virgin:) Here is the link to keep up with my daily nonsense on twitter. I will try and tweet daily….

http://twitter.com/CatalinaCruz1

*sigh* I gave in to the peer pressure. lol

Have a relaxing weekend everyone!!

Catalina Cruz

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